How do I start dating again after my divorce at age 45? ?

I felt completely lost after my marriage ended. My friend told me to stop using the apps that made me feel old and irrelevant. Then she sent me this address – https://victoriyaclub.com/search/dating-over-40 – and I found a community of people who also have kids, jobs, and real baggage. No filters, no games. I messaged a woman who liked hiking just like me. We met for coffee last Sunday and talked for three hours. For the first time in years, I didn't feel like a stranger in my own life.